Little sisters look back on ten years after Wenchuan earthquake: three dads grew up with us.
"Daddy" and two sisters photo by our reporter hujie.
that day
After the earthquake, in Hongqi Village, Nanba Town, Pingwu County, Sichuan Province, Feng Bangwu, a miner who was preparing to go down the well, escaped. His two daughters Feng Xuemei and Feng Xiaoyan also survived, but his wife failed to escape, and his home was razed to the ground by the earthquake.
That January
On the evening of May 16, 2008, our reporter Ju Zhiqin met Feng Bangwu’s family in the disaster area. Feng Xuemei, who was studying in the ruins, made him "very moved and shocked" and formed an indissoluble bond with the two sisters, becoming a "father".
With the help of Ju Zhiqin and Tang Qing, president of Chongqing Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital, "Tang Dad", the two sisters came to Chongqing to study. Now one is about to graduate from junior college, and the other has become a nurse and started working.
This decade
In June 2008, Ju Zhiqin and Dean Tang and his party sent Feng Xuemei, Feng Xiaoyan and Feng Bangwu to Chongqing, and the two sisters started a new study career in Jiulongpo.
In 2012, the accounts of the two sisters moved to Chongqing.
In September 2015, Feng Xuemei entered Chongqing Communications Vocational College to study.
In 2018, Feng Xiaoyan passed the nurse practice exam.
On April 21st, the weekend is a reunion day for Feng Xuemei and Feng Xiaoyan.
Sister Feng Xuemei hurried back from Chongqing Communications Vocational College in Jiangjin, and had to go back and forth that day. Sister Feng Xiaoyan is on duty. The Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital where she works is very close to home, and it will be there in a few minutes. Feng Bangwu, his father, works as a security guard in this hospital. Everyone says that he is diligent and can bear hardships. He plans to mortgage a suite … …
Ten years ago, an earthquake changed the life track of many people, including the Feng sisters: they lost their mother and their old house was in ruins. In the past 10 years, the two sisters have gradually grown up, and there are two more "dads" in their lives, and three dads have grown up with them.
Life is developing in a better direction.
In December 2009, under the watchful eye of Feng Bangwu, the two sisters went to school happily. They have lived in Chongqing for nearly a year. Photo by He Wei
The little girl became a big girl.
This year, Feng Xuemei is 22 years old and Feng Xiaoyan is 20 years old. In 10 years, they have changed from little girls to big girls.
Feng Xuemei is more cheerful. She said that she "talks more". She majored in urban rail transit control. She hasn’t graduated yet, and she will work part-time around the school whenever she has time. Sister Feng Xiaoyan is quieter. She has already obtained a nurse’s practice certificate, and it is "one time".
The place where a family of three got together is a two-bedroom and one-bedroom house located in Shipingqiao, which was provided by Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital. In the past 10 years, they have not received any rent. The house is not big, but it is enough for father and daughter to live in — — The two sisters live in one room, divided into bunk beds. Xuemei likes comics, and there are many posters of comics in the room.
There are many things in the living room and bedroom, but they are clean. When Feng Bangwu is a security guard, he also collects waste products near the hospital. He will move back the tables, chairs and benches that can still be used. In recent years, the conditions at home are more comfortable and new furniture has been added. However, except for rest days, the family rarely "leaves the house (goes home)" and works outside when they have time.
"I have grown so big and accepted the love of too many people, but I still want to repay the society." Feng Xuemei said that her major was to find a job. Feng Xiaoyan, too, wants to be self-reliant and self-reliant faster.
There are also two Chongqing "dads"
Ten years ago, our reporter Ju Zhiqin and Feng Chao met Feng Bangwu’s family in Pingwu County, Sichuan Province. Feng Xuemei, who was studying in the ruins, made them "very moved and shocked" and immediately gave them all the money and materials they had with them. According to local customs, the two sisters recognized "Father Ju".
In an interview, Ju Zhiqin told Tang Qing, president of Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital, the story of the Feng family of three. Tang Qing immediately decided to come forward by the hospital and take the family to Chongqing. With the help of Tang Qing and many good people, Feng Bangwu got a job, a family of three had a fixed residence, two daughters grew up gradually, and there was also a "Tang Dad".
Feng Bangwu said that the help of caring people for 10 years has made their family feel particularly grateful. They have nothing to repay and keep everything in mind. In the past 10 years, there were problems in life, enrollment and hukou, and three dads took the lead to solve the problem together.
For example, when they first arrived in Chongqing, the two children didn’t have registered permanent residence. Three people went to see the then leaders of Jiulongpo District with letters of introduction. After explaining the situation, the district leaders immediately gave instructions to solve the children’s enrollment problem.
In 2012, through efforts, the hospital moved the hukou of two children to Chongqing, and the two sisters officially became Chongqing people.
Since 2008, Tang Qing (right), president of Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital, and Feng’s father and daughter are like a family. Upstream journalist Qi Zhiqin photo
disaster
On May 12, 2008, whenever I recall this day, Feng Bangwu can express it normally at first, then he starts to sob, and finally, like his two daughters, he only hides his face and cries.
Feng Bangwu was a miner at that time. On the afternoon of the earthquake, all the workers went down the well. He decided to smoke a cigarette first to relieve his fatigue. Before a cigarette was finished, I heard the sound of rolling stones, the noise was getting louder and louder, and the mine began to deform. Feng Bangwu initially wanted to save people, but he was too busy at the back.
After escaping, the first thing that Feng Bangwu thought of was to go home. At this time, there was no way to go, so he had to search everywhere. He found his wife in the field near his home. "There was a big hole in his head and he was already dead."
The only people left don’t know where to go or what to do. Later, I learned that Hongqi Village, Nanba Town, Pingwu County, Sichuan Province, where Feng Bangwu was located, was razed to the ground in the earthquake.
Feng Bangwu was in a panic, and he didn’t have time to bury his dead wife. He hurried to school until he heard the child crying, and his heart was "a stone fell to the ground".
white light
A few days after the earthquake, Feng Bangwu took Feng Xuemei and Feng Xiaoyan and left Hongqi Village, which was full of ruins, to follow the people affected by the disaster.
At a pass by the river dam, they built a shack with banana leaves and sticks and lived for several days and nights.
On the evening of May 16th, Feng Xuemei found some Chinese textbooks in the ruins. Before the earthquake, she was in the sixth grade, and her grades were ok. She liked Chinese very much. After returning to the shack, "I feel that there is nothing to do." She opened what she had learned before the earthquake and recited it softly.
Click, click, the shutter sound and white flash from outside the tent startled Feng Xuemei. "Little sister, don’t be afraid. I’m a reporter. Go on reading." Feng Xuemei had never seen a camera and didn’t know what that white light was for (at that time, she didn’t even see an electric fan). She just thought it was amazing and didn’t know what Uncle Reporter was doing.
At that time, it was the third day that our reporters Ju Zhiqin and Feng Chao arrived in the disaster area. "It was really shocking and touching to hear the sound of reading for the first time." The two left all the money on their bodies and rushed back to Mianyang for publication overnight. Halfway through, the two found instant noodles, mineral water, bananas, etc. in the trunk, and patted their heads. "What’s the use of money? These are the most important things!" I drove back and distributed all these materials to the victims.
The reporter’s return made everyone very excited, and Feng Xuemei and Feng Xiaoyan were also shocked. They were in a mountain village and had never even seen bananas. These days, they all lived by baking potatoes. Ju Zhiqin made them "feel particularly kind and safe". Before leaving, Ju Zhiqin left a business card for the two little girls: "You can contact me when you encounter difficulties in the future."
It was suggested that according to local customs, the two little girls recognized Ju Zhiqin as their adoptive father.
Laiyu
More than a month later, Feng Xuemei called Ju Zhiqin: "Dad, I want to study!"
At that time, Nanba Town had not restored the teaching order. Feng Bangwu tried to find a second-hand old machine, and Feng Xuemei dialed the number on Juzhiqin’s business card.
At that time, there was a way to study, and that was: come to Chongqing and study in Chongqing.
When he came back, Ju Zhiqin had been thinking about how to help the little sisters and had a preliminary plan.
He consulted the sisters and Feng Bangwu, and all three of them said that they would like to come to Chongqing. JuZhiQin let them keep communication open, "pick you up in a few days".
Pingwu County is located 300 kilometers north of Chengdu, and many places are blocked by highways. Ju Zhiqin and the staff of Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital and their party drove the best car in the hospital to Nanba Town and took their sisters to Chongqing.
Feng Xuemei still remembers that her first school in Chongqing was in Jiulongpo, and she was in the sixth grade of primary school. The class teacher took care of herself and often asked her if she understood or listened. Compared with the primary school in my hometown, the school in Chongqing is "very big, with many classmates. I am a little shy and nervous when introducing myself".
one’s own flesh and blood
Feng Bangwu works as a security guard in Hang Seng Hand Surgery Hospital. He doesn’t talk much, and his work is very practical. He won the title of advanced worker for three consecutive years, and now he is saving money to buy a house.
The hospital provides tuition and living allowance for Feng Xuemei and Feng Xiaoyan, and can also go to the hospital for free lunch every day. "If you promise to take care of (sister flowers) to become adults and talents, you must do it to the end!" Tang Qing, dean of the hospital, said.
In the past 10 years, Tang Qing and Feng Jiasan were more like relatives. On holidays, Tang Qing will call relatives’ children, have dinner with the two sisters and send a red envelope. "In my heart, I have regarded them (sister flowers) as my own dolls."
On holidays, Zhang Yongcai, the former editor-in-chief of chongqing morning post, will send holiday greetings to the sisters and help them solve some practical difficulties; Caring people donated the money received from the birthday party to the Feng family as tuition and living allowance … … More and more people have joined the love team, which has become a warm current.
Our reporter Zhang Xu.